Do your children only show their feeling of happy, cheerful and other positive feelings only? Or even just show the negative feeling likewise sad, angry, fear and other negative only?
Age 3-4 years old, commonly children able to show their feeling expressions. Not only positive feelings. Through many experiences, children also able to show negative feelings.
And now, how to calm down the negative feeling of children.
Listen to their heart feeling
When children in sad feeling, help children to be able to share by telling to us as parent what happen to our children and how this feeling emerge. Because telling about what children feel can reduce negative feeling.
Give children opportunity to solve their own problem.
When children feel angry because having fight to their friend, give open question, therefore children will find their own solution. Consequently children will be independent.
Express your love feeling
Negative feeling occur because lack of love. By physic touch and lovely words, children emotion more stable. Give love eyes, love words, and show lovely behavior to children. So they feel parent’s real love.
Invite/offer children play together.
When children feel sad, give your time to play together to make children happy, hug and laugh while playing is worked to maintain your children feeling.
